It's so easy to blame others for our problems but is that far? I've seen in many cases where people have been unable to get over their issues because they play the "blame game.." Accountability is everything. I once heard a great quote that said---
“This is your life. You are responsible for it. You will not live forever. Don't wait.”
We are responsible for ourselves and the things that we do. Don't beat yourself down over something you have done, because if you don't get up and move passed it you will stay in that place and be unable to get out of it mentally and spiritually. From a spiritual point of view you must understand that through Jesus you have been set free so you're not bound to what you have done. Mentally you must get your mind right and I don't think that can be accomplished on your own you must seek God.
"Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind." --Romans 12; 2
This is an important step but the first step to getting to this point is accountability so that you first take responsibility for what you have done then you will be able seek peace in your heart and in your spirit. I'm praying for you that you find peace and you don't beat yourself down over a mistake or choice that you have been forgiven for.
